I just want to be able to interact with a person, knowing that I won’t be judged negatively due to my poor choices. People are so quick to label others without giving a person a chance, or enough time to really show ‘em what kind of person they truly are.
Over-thinking derives from problems we don’t know how to face and it correlates with how we feel about the situation. That’s where the problem lies, we’ll slowly conform to some fantasy our minds made up and we’ll never know the reality of anything because we’ll be too afraid to confront our problems. Do yourself a favor and just have some confidence in yourself. If things don’t turn out the way you want it to be, fuck it. On to the next one, there’s no use in moping over what could’ve been.
One of the worst things you can do to someone is walk away. Find it within yourself to resolve everything first before submitting yourself to being a coward. Have some integrity and lose the argument before you lose the person.
The reason why most people linger in the past is because that’s the point in time when everything felt right. Nowadays, everything feels out of place. People stop caring, sadness often prevails, and no one knows what to do anymore.
If I drink/smoke/do drugs, does that mean I’m a wild party animal? What if I said I currently have an F in chem right, does that mean I’m stupid? What if I told you a lot of things about me, would you still stick around or walk out? People are too quick judge these days, even me. It makes me sad that I underestimate a lot of people, but it makes me even more sad when people are undermining my worth as a human being as well.